<span style="font-family: Verdana; text-align: justify;">Physical relations before marriage are a grave danger to the society.</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="font-family: Verdana; text-align: justify;">This is such a blatant indecency that no religion in this world permits it, as permitting this is to drive the society toward its destruction.</span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">Maintaining sexual relations before marriage is a very great sin and invites the wrath of Allah Most High. Islam teaches modesty, chastity and orders us to practice modesty. Let alone having such relationships, Islam does not even allow one to approach them. Allah Most High says:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">And do not draw near to shameful deeds (whether) open or hidden. (Surah An’aam-151)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">And do not even go near unlawful sex (adultery). Verily it is an act of lewdness and is the most evil way. (Surah Isra-32)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">The Holy Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">Translation: Whoever sees the beauty of a woman with desire, then on the day of Day of Judgment, molten lead will be poured in his eyes. (Hidaayah, Vol. 4, Pg. No. 458)<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">Touching or caressing a non-Mahram is strictly prohibited. There are warnings in the Hadith about this. Thus, there is a Hadith:<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">Translation: Whoever touches the hand of non-Mahram woman, then on the day of Day of Judgment, a burning ember will be placed on his hand. (Hidaayah, Vol. 4, Pg. No. 459).<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">The warnings mentioned in the above Hadith hold good for women also who allow unrelated men to see them or give them an opportunity to touch them.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">In the light of the Holy Quran and Hadith, sexual relations between boys and girls, under whatever name or of whatever type is strictly prohibited. The laws of the Shariah cannot be broken in the name of love or freedom.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">Allah Most High says in Surah Baqarah, verse no. 229:`<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana">These are the limits (set) by Allah. So, do not exceed them. And those who exceed the limits prescribed by Allah, it is they who are the wrongdoers.<o:p></o:p></span></p>